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The intention of saying "this and that  I think is wrong " is usually to get things better.

There is nothing wrong with wanting things to get better, I would say.  Actually, without that intention things have never turned into the better!

Marc
I like "shitbags"... not because of the odor... but because the effect they have ;-)

In other words: It is not about the "form" people say things, bu it is about the "things" they say.

I like the things you say Finn... You old shitbag!

Marc